– To always put the others before to itself. – To consider itself first to itself, but also to take into account to the others (the most adapted). The aggression could be said that it is a way to express themselves or to conduct themselves by means by means of being able, through what the person dominates itself or damages the other. The submission is constituted in form opposed to the aggression, where the person is damaged or put under the will from the other. On the other hand, the assertive person does not damage nor prevails, in her conduct is observed respect the rights of the own ones.
The investigations are many that have been carried out to study the assertiveness and the techniques to develop, thus for example, in the school Psychology of the Faculty of Humanities and Education of the central University of Venezuela, have been realised several studies within area, between which we can mention: – Brito J. it determined the effect of the execution of a factory of communication in the increase of abilities stops to communicate with other people, to establish interpersonal relations, to liderizar and to make decisions in a group and it concluded that this factory of communication applied to highly effective experimental group since abilities were increased to communicate with other people, to establish interpersonal relations, leadership and form of decisions in group. – Cartaya U., (2006), realised the effect of an assertive program in a group of educational based on techniques of communication (feedback) and cohesion. The program threw changes in conducts in the participants in relation to its communication since, was increased the ability to offer and to receive feedback, to use the present time in the interventions (here and now) and to use customized expressions I – your, taking responsibility thus reason why it is said and it becomes.